Gift Guide for the Beauty Addict

Whee, I’m back with another fun gift guide!! And I tell you, it’s a good job I’m so prepared with these gift guides because some of these treats are limited edition and time sensitive!

Who said that Christmas presents have to come on the 25th? What about an amazing Advent Calendar that will keep her thinking of you all throughout December?

Did I mention how much I’ve been loving shopping for this Gift Guide series? Now just to sit on my credit card and stop myself from buying them all for me!!

In case you missed the previous guide, you can check out my Travelling Girl Gift Guide here.

GIFT GUIDE FOR THE BEAUTY ADDICT

 

Gift Guide for the Beauty Addict - Christmas treats for the Beauty Junkie in your life

Advent Calendar | Face Mask | Lip Set | Highlight Palette | Nail Varnish | Nail Varnish | Brush Set | Fenty Powder | Hair Dryer | Perfume Powder | FOREO Cleansing Brush | Rose Quartz Roller | Perfume | Apothecary Jars | Spa Head Bands
Charlotte Tilbury Advent Calendar

Quite the luxury gift, but one that is certain to get her very excited. With twelve doors containing a mixture of full-sized and mini CT favourites inside a stunning set of galaxy themed glittered drawers. This is a seriously decadent gift. The trend for beauty advent calendars has exploded the last couple of years with many beauty, skincare and scent brands all bringing out their best for the festive season. I couldn’t even pick just one – see a few more of my favourites from ASOS, Mac and Liberty here, here and here.

Rodial Pink Diamond Sheet Mask

There’s something really pampering and indulgent about a great sheet mask. Even better if you get together with the girls and enjoy as part of a girls night in. I recently invested in one of the Rodial Pink Diamond sheet masks and absolutely loved it. Unlike traditional sheet masks that can slide around and leave you looking, well, a little bit weird. This ultra light transparent firming mask clings to your face and barely looks like you are wearing one (no scaring the pizza delivery guy when he comes to the door!). At $12 for one, this is a generous little stocking stuffer.

Fresh Sugar Rush Set

During Mistletoe season she’ll want to ensure that her lips are in tip top condition and perfectly kissable. Fresh has been one of my favourite brands for lip balm for a while now and this little set including their balm and a scrub will keep chapped lips at bay.

Becca x Chrissy Teigen Glow Palette

If (and that’s a big if) she hasn’t purchased this already for herself, she will certainly appreciate this cult highlighter palette appearing under her Christmas tree. A highlight palette that gets all the beauty girls excited

OPI Nail Envy

Because who doesn’t want long and strong nails? Unfortunately, years of shellac manicures and a nasty habit of picking at them has left my nails a little weakened and prone to breaking. OPI Nail Envy is pure magic when it comes to growing your nails long naturally. Maybe give it as an early gift so that she can get her nails looking perfect for the party season. A bottle of OPI Nail Envy along with a pretty colour polish and an emery board would make a really simple gift that fits almost any budget.

Glitter O’Clock Brush Set

Nothing screams festive like this cute glitter and gold brush set from Sephora. The multi-colour sparkle immediately puts me in the Christmas party spirit and it got great reviews online.

FOREO Luna Play

Before you go in with that sheet mask – you’re going to need to ensure that your face is squeaky clean! I received my FOREO Luna in my Summer FabFitFun box and it has become a staple part of my routine ever since. I was never a massive fan of the brush-head cleansing devices as I found the bristles a little irritating on my quite sensitive skin. The FOREO is so gentle, while still being super effective – it leaves my skin glowy, soft and perfectly clean.

Fenty Mini Fairy Bomb

Is it a Christmas ornament? Yes and no, it’s the Fenty Mini Fairy Bomb, and we’d love to cover our tree with these guys! A little ball of glitter puff highlight for that extra bit of festive sparkle during the Christmas period. Glimmering iridescent pink shimmer with a vanilla-coconut scent. What’s not to love?

Blown-Ouai (Dyson Hairdryer + Ouai hair products) –

A gorgeous limited edition set put together by Sephora brings together the lusted after Dyson hairdryer with a set of Ouai hair products. The set cost the same as the hairdryer by itself, making all those gorgeous hair products basically free!

Cartier La Panthère Powder de Parfum Etincelante

I’m just all about the sparkle over Christmas – it’s the time of year that you can go all out. This luxurious Cartier scented highlight powder finishes your look perfectly. Designed to be layered over the Cartier La Panthère Eau de Parfum.

Rose Quartz Roller

A part of Chinese beauty rituals for centuries, jade and rose quartz rollers are said to help blood circulation, skin tone, elasticity of the skin and lymphatic drainage. Also known to help reduce puffiness, wrinkles, dark under eye circles and eliminate toxins. I have a couple of these on my Amazon wishlist and an inkling that one might be arriving in my Winter FabFitFun box, which I can’t wait to try out! Keep in the fridge for a cooling and refreshing treat for your skin.

Aerin Amber Musk

Perfume is a pretty personal gift, but if you are confident that you know what she likes it can be a really thoughtful purchase. I always wear the same scent, but with some beautiful options on the market, I still enjoy checking others out. This Aerin Amber Musk smells like a good choice for Autumn/Winter weather.

Apothecary Storage Jars

If your beauty addict is anything like me, her bathroom shelves and dressing table are likely overflowing with product. These cute glass jars are a super chic and affordable storage solution. I have this same set in my bathroom and they keep my Q-tips, cotton balls and cotton pads dry and free of dust and dirt.

Spa Head Band

When prepping and pampering your skin, what about these terry-cloth spa facial headbands? Such a useful little stocking stuffer. A simple Velcro design means that they hold all your hair (even the baby fine hairs) back away from your face. Keeping your hair dry and free-from whatever products you are putting on your skin. A must have, practical gift for any beauty girl!

 

So those are my beauty suggestions!! Which of those do you think you’d most love to receive?

I must remember to order my own advent calendar – which one should I pick??

My Gift Guide for the Foodie will be up next – suitable for both guys and girls. I will be showcasing some really delicious gifts!!

 

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Gift Guide for the Travelling Girl

Is it really that time of year already…?! Can I hear the distant sound of jingle bells and Christmas carols? Almost…! And I’m getting an early-ish start on my Christmas shopping this year! (I say this every year but, this time I really mean it

 

I have a series of gift guides planned for you guys and I will cover all my girls (the foodie, the girlboss, the homebody, the beauty addicts and the girls like me, with a serious case of wanderlust! There will be one for him and even some stocking stuffers, if we’re not completely shopped out by that point!) These will be interspersed with the usual sunny Caribbean content. We will cover a whole range of price points with some save and some splurge items – I got you ladies, feel free to leave this browser open for your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, room mate, friends or parents as a not so subtle hint…  

 

So, first up to bat are my travelling girls and I LOVED shopping for this one (who am I kidding? I loved shopping for all of them) – as always, I would never recommend anything that I wouldn’t buy myself and boy did I have to stop myself from buying all of these little treats… I still might, let’s be honest! 

So what have I got for you? 

The Gift Guide for the Travelling Girl - Show her that you care with thoughtful gift suggestions at a variety of price points, that are sure to make her smile!

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Packing Bags | Retro Silver Spinner Case | Facial Spray | Clarity Clutch | Tech Envelope | Always Take the Scenic Route Travel Journal | Leather World Travel Journal | Bose Headphones | Leather Luggage Tags | Latitude and Longitude Cuff Bracelet | Lonely Planet’s Ultimate TravelCarry-on Cocktail Kit | Baggage Tag Charm Necklace | Scratch Map | Mini Cross Body Bag

 

:: Kate Spade Packing Bags – 

You guys know that I am obsessed with organization when it comes to packing. I am all about the packing bags and the packing cubes and believe that they are fundamental in efficient packing and easy travelling. The travelling girl in your life will love these chic and simple black and cream ones from Kate Spade. 

 

:: Retro Silver Spinner Case – 

Good luggage is essential for fun travel – nothing worse than a busted wheel or a broken lock when you are miles away from home. These gorgeous retro cases look as sturdy as they do stylish and are definitely on my wish list! (Comes in six different colours too!)

 

:: Facial Spray – 

Long haul travel can be tough on your skin – I’ve been loving these facial sprays from Mario Badescu which really help to revive and refresh your skin when it’s feeling dry after all that time in the air-con. Just a little gift to show her that you care, which will surely be appreciated! 

 

:: Clarity Clutch – 

Because those little ziplock bags at the airport are a horrible use of single-use plastic and these beautiful leather-trimmed TSA compliant clear clutch bags are a much chicer alternative. Keep your jewelry and your liquids safe with these Clarity Clutches from Truffle. 

 

:: Tech Envelope – 

More stylish storage with this Tech Envelope from Mark & Graham to keep all your cables and devices safe and organized. I have been using my blush leather Tech Envelope for years, but I have my eye on this white and tan option now… These can also be monogrammed for that extra personal touch.

 

:: Travel Journal –

Every travelling girl needs a journal to record her adventures. I’ve given you two gorgeous options at very different price points. A colorful and practical Erin Condren planner (with packing lists and space for your itinerary details), or a luxe leather journal from Mark & Graham (with illustrated maps). Either would make a glorious gift for the girl in your life with itchy feet. 

 

:: Noise Cancelling Headphones – 

The biggest splurge gift on my list – she’ll definitely be travelling in comfort with these gorgeous noise-cancelling headphones from Bose. Truly the mark of a serious traveller, you need these in your life once you start racking up the air miles (hint, hint husband).

 

:: Leather Luggage Tags – 

What’s the point of having that gorgeous new suitcase if it’s just going to get lost. Put your contact details on these luscious leather tags so that everyone knows who that lovely luggage belongs to. They’re tan, to match the suitcase – you’re welcome! 

 

:: LatandLo Cuff Bracelet – 

Another cheeky splurge, these latitude and longitude bracelets come in 6 different metal options, ranging from $89 – $1,050 depending on whether you choose gold-filled or solid gold. I love the gold-filled finish. Pick a location that your travelling girl would love – will she want a reminder of home or your favourite travel adventure location? 

:: LONELY PLANET ULTIMATE TRAVEL – 
How better to pique her travel interest and get her excited about all the adventures than the Lonely Planet’s Ultimate Travel Guide. 500 of the best destinations around the globe, ranked in this incredible book full of beautiful photographs. Describing itself as the ‘definitive wish list of the best places to visit on earth’ this stunning coffee table book is sure to inspire her travel dreams.   

 

:: Carry-on Cocktail – 

The perfect little gift to make her smile – these carry-on cocktail kits are TSA compliant and come in various classic cocktail options. I’ve picked the champagne cocktail but whether your travelling girl likes a Mary or drinks a Mule, there’s something for everyone. (BVI friends – these have been spotted at House BVI). 

 

:: Baggage Tag Charm Necklace – 

I love these simple travel charms and, with 340 different locations from around the World to choose from, there is bound to be one with significance for your travelling girl. They even have one for teeny, tiny Virgin Gorda airport which is mere footsteps from my house. What an adorable little keepsake of her favourite journeys and adventures.  

 

:: Scratch Map

The ultimate reminder of all those globe-trotting travels is surely the Scratch Map – a beautifully simple concept and a wonderfully visual way to record and remember your travel experiences. They come in a couple of different colour options but I love this simple gold and white colour way which would sit tastefully in any home. 

 

:: Mini Cross-body Bag – 

A cross-body bag is the ideal handbag when you’re on the go – hands-free but nice and close to you. This buttery-soft leather cross-body is made by the Cambridge Satchel Company – one of my favourite British brands for a well-made bag (I already have their convertible Cloud Bag in red). Just big enough for your phone, passport, room key and some cash, the Mini Tassel Bag makes a lovely travel companion that will also slide easily into your carry-on or beach bag.


So there we have it – just a few suggestions for some tempting treats. Do you have anyone to buy for that would appreciate a couple of these pressie ideas? I’m certainly hoping to find a couple under my Christmas tree!  

Need even more inspiration? Find my travel essentials post here, which features all of my favourite travelling accessories – many of which would also make for gorgeous gifts!

Stay tuned for the rest of the gift guides which will be coming soon!

 

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Island Interior Inspo: How to incorporate tropical decor all year round

So the weather might just be starting to cool down, and the abundance of PSL pics making their way into my social media tells me that we’re firmly headed into Autumn with no turning back. But with all this glorious Fall inspo around, I’ve decided to buck the trend and show you that – when it comes to decor – there’s no reason why you can’t live #thebeachlife all year round! I’m giving you island interiors inspiration today!

 

If there’s one thing that bloggers like Kat Gaskin (of Salty Pineapple and the Content Planner) and Rebeka Steen (Goldfish Kiss) have taught me (other than how best to take care of your pineapple plants and that there’s no such thing as layering too much delicate gold jewelry) it’s that you don’t need to live in the islands in order to embrace those tropical vibes at home (even if you live in Canada!) So this post is dedicated to that island interior inspo, and showing you just how you can bring some of that island sunshine inside. I’ll be featuring some of the items I already own, along with those on my wishlist!

 

Please note – this post contains some affiliate links, which means that if I have inspired you to click through and make a purchase today, I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you. Happy shopping!

Leafy prints –

Nothing screams #islandlife and fresh tropical vibes like my signature leaf prints. I wear them, I use them in the branding for my blog, I have them all over my home – they’re everywhere! I’m addicted to all of the leaf prints but I definitely have a soft spot for banana leaves and monstera leaves. I’m thrilled that leaf prints still don’t seem to be going  a n y w h e r e and I am taking advantage of all that leafy loveliness still available in stores. I’m fairly certain that my husband might divorce me if I bring one more leaf print throw cushion home, but that doesn’t seem to stop me… Try to incorporate graphic prints – in order to keep things from getting a bit too floral and ‘Margaritaville’ in here, I like to balance the leafy prints with some bold black and white simple prints, like my black and white Aztec print cushions and a throw in thick black and white stripes.

Island Interior Inspiration with The Barefoot Angel

Banana Leaf Cushion Cover | Set of 4 Leaf Prints | Black and White and Palm Print Cushion Cover | Black and White Throw with Tassels | Grey and White Throw with Tassels | Black and White and Leaf Print Cushion Cover | Straw Floor Cushion

At home with The Barefoot Angel - Island Interior Inspiration

*Adorable island rescue pup not included…

Coffee table books –

The source of much of my island interior inspiration, there are some gorgeous coffee table books available, as beautiful as they are practical. My favourite features lovely seafood recipes alongside interior decor ideas and snapshots of beautiful coastal homes. All those glossy pages of coastal living, beachside chic and tropical tastes. Pair those beautiful books with some of these fun book ends, I love my seahorse bookends (similar here) but this chic white shell pair is on my wishlist! *BVI friends, House has some gorgeous coffee table books currently in stock. 

Island Interior Inspiration - Glossy Tropical Coffee Table Books

The Book of Palms | Seahorse Bookends | Shell Bookends | Surf Shack Coffee Table Book | Aloha Coffee Table Book | Seahorse Bookends | Coral Bookends | Coastal Living Coffee Table Book

At home with The Barefoot Angel - Island Interior Inspiration

Plants –

It’s not just pictures of plants, you also need the real thing! No better way to switch up the look of your house, and bring some of that fresh outside feeling in, than with some gorgeous house plants! If you’re not confident you’ll be able to keep them alive, start off with some succulents or cacti (the beginners houseplants) and take it from there! *BVI friends, my gorgeous plants and succulents all came from Fort Garden Center.

Scents –

You know that distinctive holiday scent – that heady mixture of coconut, sunscreen and tropical flowers that immediately transports you back to balmy summer nights with a cocktail in hand? Bring that into your home with some of these gorgeous scented candles. Notes of plumeria and hibiscus, or coconut and lemongrass. I’m also featuring my favourite room diffuser – Seychelles by the White Company which smells beautifully warm and beachy with notes of bergamot and bright orange mingling with coconut, almond and vanilla.

Island Interior Inspiration with The Barefoot Angel - beautiful beachy scents

Seychelles Reed Diffuser by the White Company | Palm Passion Coconut Lime Scented Candle | Coconut and Lemongrass Reed Diffuser | Plumeria and Hibiscus Candle | Plumeria Scented Candle
At home with The Barefoot Angel - Island Interior Inspiration
Palm coasters –

These guys get a whole section to themselves because whenever they feature on my Instagram I can always guarantee a flurry of DM’s asking about them! They were a gift from my little sister (who knows me so well!) but they are available at Sass & Belle. So here you are, and they’re in stock, you’re welcome!

At home with The Barefoot Angel - Island Interior Inspiration

Hanging Chair –

Bring the outdoor furniture in with a hanging chair or hammock chair for a comfortable and fun seating option that works as well in the lounge as it does on a deck or balcony.

 

Island Interior Inspiration with The Barefoot Angel

Sass & Belle Tropical Leaf Coasters | Papasan Chair | Removable Palm Print Adhesive Wallpaper | Hanging Chair | Wall Ladder Shelves
Feature Wall –

If, like me, you live in rented accommodation, it can be really difficult to bring your personality into your home when you are restricted to what changes you can or can’t make. I have been mulling over the idea of a feature wall using some of the excellent adhesive wallpapers now on the market. They come in so many striking prints and are a powerful way to switch up your space without damaging the paintwork. Just be sure to clear it with your landlord first, to be on the safe side! Some of my favourites are here, here and here.

Gold Accents –

Get that sunshine feel with elements of bright gold – including a gorgeous starburst mirror that I have had my eye on for months. My fingers are just itching to add it to my cart. My heart says yes but my credit card says no…

 

Island Interior Inspiration with The Barefoot Angel - Beautiful gold accessories

Starburst Mirror | Gold and White Pineapple Bookends | Urchin Tealight Holders | Gold Nesting Tables | Bold Round Mirror | Hanging Planters

So there we have it – are any of these featuring on your wishlist or languishing in your cart? In case you haven’t had enough leafy inspiration – here are some of my favourite Pinterest images inspired by my love of the islands. You can follow along on my Pinterest for more tropical vibes and beachy Pinspiration here.

Pinspiration - Island Interiors with The Barefoot Angel

Photo Credits Clockwise from Top Left: Sarah M. Dorsey | H&M | Soul of Mine Interior | Oliver Bonas | Frontgate | H&M 

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Lessons That Hurricane Irma Taught Me

So, I agonized for the longest time about writing this post! In fact, if i had a dollar for every time I’ve started trying to write it and then stopped, I’d be able to retire the day job and blog full-time… You see, I still find it incredibly difficult to read or watch anything to do with the hurricane and for a long time I just couldn’t imagine being able to write about it. One of the things that prevented me from blogging for so long following the hurricane was that I felt this huge expectation that I should write ‘my hurricane story’, even though I didn’t feel like I was able to. But after a long  heart-to-heart with one of my closest friends, after a couple of glasses of wine, I was persuaded that I should at least try and that it might well be beneficial. With the anniversary approaching it had been on my mind a lot and I have found it to be remarkably cathartic putting all these words down, even if it usually comes with fresh waves of tears.

 

I do feel I must clarify that, my thoughts and opinions are by no means indicative of anyone else’s. Please understand that everyone’s experience going through the storm will have been different and that no two stories are the same. 

Storm clouds gather on September 5th as hurricane Irma approaches the BVI

 

So here we go, on the 4th September 2017, I published this – a sneak peek inside my Hurricane kit. A cheerfully optimistic (since updated) piece as we watched and waited for hurricane Irma’s arrival. I’d been through storms, I explained. Have your basic supplies ready, I preached. Food and water to see you and your family through a few days, I advised. But I had absolutely no idea what was coming and how it was going to change everything.

 

Now, I’m writing this blog post nearly a full 12 months post-Hurricane. Since being evacuated for my own safety by my husband’s company on September 11th and then returning four weeks later to the utter devastation that was our island community.

 

I find it hard to look back on my experience during the hurricane. I can’t bring myself to go through many of the photos (even my own), videos still bring me to tears. I can’t read the books or articles published about it. Writing this has taken me 11 months… It was one of the hardest experiences of my life and one which I struggle to articulately explain or adequately describe, so I won’t even try. I did just want to share a couple of the things that living through this unique experience has taught me:

 

Your community will make or break you – 

 

It was truly terrifying to see just how quickly the looting and stealing starts when people have lost everything and they get desperate. I’m talking less than 6 hrs after the storm, as evening came and most of us were still reeling from the shock of what had just happened – the stealing had already started.

 

Scuffles at the shelters, fights over supplies and more than a little sense of Lord of the Flies. Finding out that the prison on Tortola was open did little to allay our fears. Tensions are heightened, everyone is scrambling for the last of the items at the supermarkets, the last bottles of water and batteries. You are queuing for hours and pooling every last dollar (needless to say that no electricity means no cash points or card machines at the supermarkets) weighing up the merits of each item as you purchase it, in some sort of apocalyptic supermarket sweep.

 

With regards to the looting, I am definitely talking about the minority here, just a few bad apples. But you only need a couple of incidences to unsettle you, make you concerned and worry about your safety. 

Natural disasters seem to bring out the best and worst in people. Anxiety and fear take over when you find yourself in such extreme circumstances leading to behavior that might normally be out of character. Most likely the looters were just light-fingered opportunists who saw the absolute chaos as the perfect cover for their thievery. But the British military coming in to restore law, and a life under curfew was very much necessary. 

 

At the same time, you will band together with other people in your neighborhood and you will help each other out. People you had never known before will become close friends practically overnight. You essentially only have a couple of days before everything in your fridge/freezer is going to thaw and spoil. We got together and cooked it on communal BBQs, feeding a huge group of us for breakfast and dinner for a couple of days, sharing our food and our wine. I have never been prouder or more grateful to live on Virgin Gorda as I was in those days immediately post-hurricane. There was a strength and resilience displayed by the whole community and a powerful feeling of hope in the face of such adversity and hopelessness. As some of the community started to evacuate they passed food, water, toiletries, supplies, nappies and baby formula to those staying behind. Replenishing their neighbour’s dwindling resources as best they could with their own. The hugs we exchanged when we found our friends as the days wore on in September were raw and real, and almost always accompanied by unapologetic tears of relief. 

Community meetings on Virgin Gorda after hurricane Irma hits the BVI

Sharing food and wine with neighbours after hurricane Irma in the BVI - sharing the lessons that the storm taught me

 

Speaking of evacuations, I will say that leaving our island, and everyone that I love here, was one of the hardest things I have ever done. The uncertainty of when I would be back, when we would be together again and what that would look like broke my heart a little every day. To this day, not everyone has come back. There were friends and colleagues that I never got to say goodbye to. We never could have imagined in the days leading up to the hurricane that we would be scattered and that that would be it. But…

 

Get out if you can – 

 

There is no point in trying to be a hero. If you have the means and the opportunity to leave, you should take it. On the most  basic level you are a drain on already depleted resources. Unless you have a practical skill, medical experience or the brute strength to help rebuild, you are not needed and not helpful. Lessen the burden if you can and leave.

 

I’m not talking about forever, ultimately our little community needed us all to come back. Mass evacuation does nothing to help the local economy. But for the few weeks post-storm, when there is not much  in the way of food and water, it is best that all those supplies go where they are needed – to those that unfortunately can’t get away and to the incredible people that are helping out. I understand how hard it is to leave the life you have created behind, and I appreciate the practical and economical factors may mean that it simply isn’t possible, but if you can leave you might want to take the opportunity. I will never, ever forget the desolating feeling of leaving and the mixture of feelings as I landed in London on the morning of September 15th. Feeling utterly broken and wondering how I would ever be able to put it all back together. 

Evacuating the BVI following hurricane Irma on September 6th 2017

The views from the boat as I am evacuated following hurricane Irma in the BVI. Leverick Bay, North Sound Virgin Gorda

The view looking back as I am evacuated from the BVI following hurricane Irma - Leverick Bay, North Sound Virgin Gorda

 

Look after yourself – 

 

Regardless of whether you can leave or not, you really want to make sure that you look after yourself. Easier said than done. What you don’t know at the time, but may well find out later, is that you are running around in a state of heightened anxiety. Shock has a physical effect on the body and your adrenal gland is working overtime with all the adrenaline that is coursing through your system and that can inevitably lead to burn-out and a monumental crash. You need to take the time, where possible, to look after yourself – listen to your body and rest when you can.

 

When I got back to the UK I discovered that I had adrenal fatigue – my adrenal gland had been running for so long it was exhausted, this came with a host of health issues. Added to this I kept fainting! An existing blood pressure problem was severely exacerbated by the stress. My husband was firm, I was to leave and get help. What I had never fully appreciated was the toll that a natural disaster can have on your health in the aftermath, even if you aren’t injured at the time. Diabetics and patients with hypertension need to pay particular attention. Stress and a poor diet with the lack of fresh produce can cause real issues. The actual death toll from Irma has still not fully been calculated. There is a difference between the immediate figures and the aftermath.

Now a year on, a different issue lingers as members of our community still struggle with PTSD and other ongoing anxieties. We still need to remember to pay attention to ourselves, and to our needs. PTSD aside, life is just so much harder since the hurricane. I doubt anyone could tell you exactly why, or how it is harder – it just is. Everything is more of an effort and it’s exhausting, we’re all just tired. So, so tired.

 

People care – 

 

Never having found myself in the midst of any kind of humanitarian disaster before, it was something of a surprise to me when the marines started to arrive. When dawn came on September 7th and we finally had an opportunity to look outside, I was terrified – wondering how we were going to do this all by ourselves. But help was already on its way. And it wasn’t just the military support – humanitarian relief and charitable organizations like Team Rubicon and Serve On flew in as soon as they were able and our Puerto Rican neighbours loaded containers full of supplies and sent them as fast as they could. The support was truly humbling. One of the things that I really struggled with post-storm was how much Puerto Rico had helped us, yet when Category 4 hurricane Maria hit them mere weeks later, we had absolutely nothing to give back…

 

I will never forget the incredible sense of relief that flooded through me the first time I saw one of those naval helicopters fly overhead, assessing the area. I can still pinpoint the exact moment that I saw it. I was waiting outside the supermarket for it to open, it was one of the first to open and one of our only opportunities to top up our supplies. It was so hot, as we waited outside in the sun for over an hour. The queue was gathering and jostling as more and more people came to wait, we were all irritable and aggressive as some people started to push their way to the front. First we heard it and then we saw it, and I felt this euphoric sense of relief as I realized that help really wasn’t that far away. 

 

Finding wood to board up the house after hurricane Irma devastates the BVI


Respect for the strength of Mother Nature – 

 

It is truly incredible to learn what 240 mph winds are capable of. Before Irma we had no comprehension of the kind of damage that hurricane-force wind could do. For the record, I would have been quite content not ever knowing… But, now I can tell you first-hand that category 5 winds can twist metal girders like pipe cleaners, or toss a 20 ton catamaran onto a building. They will strip every single leaf and frond from the trees and leave them looking scorched, broken, dry and twisted. They can scatter cars like LEGO bricks, peel off a roof like a can opener and reduce a house and all its contents to matchsticks in minutes. I didn’t know before September 6th that the noise that a hurricane makes is like a hundred freight trains bearing down on your house, with the rumbling, the shaking and the piercing, shrieking whistle that comes with them. I, like many people that went through Hurricane Irma, will probably still hear that noise, for many years to come.

 

Damage to Mahoe Bay, Virgin Gorda after hurricane Irma devastates the BVI

Houses destroyed across the BVI following hurricane Irma

 

It’s not about the material things – 

 

Nothing crystallizes your feelings about your possessions like having to pack a bag with the items that mean the most to you. I was so fortunate. Many of my clothes, shoes and handbags were destroyed but the majority were fine and our house was still standing. Not everyone was as lucky as we were. Before I evacuated I packed three bags. None of them were guaranteed to ride with me, the smallest had to contain the absolute essentials and then the other two were bonus; allowed to travel only if there was enough space on the boat. You had to prioritize everything.

 

What did I take? A couple of my favourite handbags, some old photographs of my grandparents and my wedding dress… About as much use to me in London during my evacuation as a chocolate teapot, but memories that I couldn’t bear to leave to get trashed. (To be clear, when I left, the house wasn’t watertight and I couldn’t guarantee that it wouldn’t get ransacked.) I just took what I could. I have heard similar stories from friends about what they took when they evacuated. Not the most expensive, most practical or the most stylish items but the sentimental pieces.

 

Houses, businesses, cars destroyed in the BVI following hurricane Irma

Houses, businesses and cars destroyed across the BVI following hurricane Irma

 My car ‘Ruby’ ended up inside a local bar – when I found her weeks later, anything of any value (including the steering wheel) had been stripped for parts.

 

You will adapt and your perspective will change – 

 

When I was moaning in 2010 about a 5-day power outage following tropical storm Otto, I was told about the Cayman Islands being without power for 12 weeks following hurricane Ivan in 2004. I was absolutely astounded, I found it completely incomprehensible that anyone could live for 3 months without electricity. How would they store food? How could anyone cope with tropical heat without so much as a fan? How do you manage without showers and flushing toilets (for most of us no electricity means no running water)? But it is remarkable how quickly you find work arounds to these things when every electricity pole is down, the wires have all been cut and there is no hope of restoration for weeks or months. Before long the neighbourhoods hummed with the sound of generators, paper plates quickly became a necessity and you restricted your grocery shops to store cupboard essentials. FYI we got power restored to our house after three and a half months, relying on the generous hospitality of friends until our generator arrived. There were many others less fortunate with some only getting reconnected in March. Puerto Rico only fully restored power in August of this year. 

 

Your heart will break for those around you – 

 

Not one person in our island community came out of that storm with their life still looking the same way it did on September 5th. Irma ripped through our islands, tore through the community and changed everything, the devastation was inconceivable. Whether it was the loss of possessions, car, house, job, business or, heart-breakingly, a friend or loved one – everyone’s lives have altered in some way. Mother Nature is indiscriminate, she does not care whether you are a millionaire or on minimum wage – everyone lost something. It is a very humbling and leveling experience. Many have lost everything and I am still shocked each day by the horrific conditions that I find people living in. We have been scattered, children away from their parents, wives apart from their husbands. Families separated and displaced. Survivor guilt can be crippling – we fared so much better than many people and I find it unbearable to think about what some of my closest friends endured.

 

Once bitten, twice shy – 

 

You could accuse many of us in the BVI of being horribly blasé in the lead up to hurricane Irma (I am not in any way suggesting that we didn’t prepare, because we did, but still). It had been so long since a serious storm and we had so many near misses that we still, despite all the maps and forecasts that were determined to prove otherwise, believed that ‘everything would somehow be okay’… but it wasn’t. The size of the storm was unprecedented.

 

This year, as we edge further and further into hurricane season, there is a palpable tension and anxiety levels are climbing. Every time we get serious rain we seem to collectively have a little meltdown. And who could really blame us? Many are still without watertight roofs! Once upon a time a rain storm was just an excuse to stay inside all day watching Netflix and not feeling guilty, now they seem to have a sinister edge to them. We frantically monitor the weather news and obsessively check the apps. Unexpectedly Hurricane Irma did have many positive takeaways, if you look hard enough. Hopefully one of them will be that we will do our best to prepare better for future storms. Although quite how anyone could have ‘prepared’ for a storm of that magnitude, I don’t know.

NOAA picture of hurricane Irma as she makes her way across the Caribbean on September 6th 2017

 To date hurricane Irma is the largest Atlantic hurricane since records began. The eye of the storm passed directly over the British Virgin Islands and we spent 45 minutes in the eerie calmness before all hell broke loose again. Much of the damage to property was caused by the tornadoes that peeled off the eye wall.

 

This post feels very difficult to sign-off so I  just want to leave you with a quote that I found when I returned to London. I wasn’t looking for hurricane quotes, it sort of found me – in one of those peculiar ways that the universe has.

 

“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ~ Haruki Murakami

 

 

The British Virgin Islands still has a long road to recovery – should you wish to donate please consider giving to local charities such as Adopt a Roof, The Family Support Network or Unite BVI. Alternatively donations for Team Rubicon and Serve On, as they support communities across the globe would be very much appreciated. 

*Special thanks to: my incredible action-man husband, Dominic. My ever-patient and supportive family. My generous, hospitable and beautiful sister-in-law for taking me in for 4 weeks when I was a little bit homeless and lost. And lastly, my rock-star BVI friends who continue to stay positive in the face of everything and have made it through one of the most challenging years of our lives. 

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A Sneak Peek Inside My… Hurricane Kit (Post-Irma Update)

Things that I had been putting off since resuming blogging earlier this year are (a) making any reference to Hurricane Irma* and (b) updating this post…

 

But, after some panicked messages from friends with family in Hawaii this morning, I realized that I was being a little irresponsible and that this post could actually be a useful resource.


So here you are – ‘A Sneak Peek Inside my Hurricane Kit, the Post-Irma Edition’. Below is my original post (published September 4th, 2017) with updates to reflect what I learnt and found useful during and in the aftermath of a Category 5 hurricane. If you find this helpful, please be sure to share it. 
 

 

SEPTEMBER 4th, 2017

No sooner have I returned from my holidays and already a hurricane is on our doorstep. Never are you more aware of the beauty and power of Mother Nature than when you live in a hurricane belt.

Living in the Caribbean for as long as I have, I am no stranger to hurricanes and tropical storms but, by and large, (barring TS Otto that sent mudslides into my house in 2010) Mother Nature has been pretty kind to us in the BVI for the last decade. This year though, the gloves are off and we already suffered a huge storm in early August that caused widespread flooding and extensive damage to homes and businesses across the islands. Now Hurricane Irma is headed our way and looking increasingly like she’ll be at Cat 3 or 4 strength when she lands on Wednesday/Thursday.

2018 Update: Hurricane Irma hit the British Virgin Islands on Wednesday September 6th 2017 at Category 5 strength. She was the largest Atlantic hurricane in recorded history. Sustained winds of over 160 kts devastated the BVI and left us without power for months. 

 

The track of hurricane Irma in the days before she hit. Updating my hurricane kit and what I learnt after hurricane Irma

 

We only have to look at the damage done in Texas recently to know that these storms are not to be messed with and my heart goes out to all those suffering in Harvey’s wake, especially as I make my own preparations for Irma’s arrival.

Thankfully we have the weather reports to keep us updated (I’ve also downloaded a really helpful app – Hurricane Tracker for $3.99) and we watch anxiously as she creeps ever closer…

Still, forewarned is forearmed and these next couple of days will be spent stocking up on all the necessities and readying the house as best we can (readputting up the hurricane shutters, setting out the sandbags and hoping for the best…).

Obviously, we are keeping all of our fingers and toes firmly crossed that Irma causes no trouble for anyone, but the motto that I’ve always adhered to is ‘Prepare for the worst and hope for the best’.

Want to see which supplies I will be packing to see me through the storm?

:: Water

The general rule of thumb is that you should pack one gallon of drinking water per person/per day (this should include animals) so for our little family we ideally need 4 gallons of water per day and we should aim to have enough to cover 3-7 days at least (More water will be needed for cleaning and washing.)

2018 update: Keep on hand enough drinking water for 14 days. Water purification tablets would also be useful if you can get them. Stock more water than you think that you could ever get through.

:: Canned food, non-perishable items and pet food

Tinned soup, protein/granola bars, nuts (anything you can eat right out of the packet), crackers, cans of Beefaroni (don’t judge me…) and Pringles have always featured in my hurricane supplies since they can be eaten hot or cold, if absolutely necessary. I also like to ensure that I have an adequate supply of teabags (I might live in the Caribbean but I’m still British after all!)

2018 Update: Have food and water for AT LEAST 2 weeks. It may seem excessive, but non-perishable foods will always come in handy after the fact, or you can donate them to your local food bank if you’re fortunate and don’t need to use it all.

Do not purchase foods that require water or cooking. Pastas and grains won’t be much use to you if you have no fresh water to cook them in. You won’t want to waste your supply of drinking water. My recommendations are still tins of cooked pasta (Chef Boyardee or similar), tins of soup (not the concentrated kind), trail mix, protein/granola bars, tins of tuna, or anything that you can eat cold and out of a can. There won’t be any water for washing up either. I have also been meaning to try MRE’s (Meals-Ready-to-Eat) like those supplied to the military, as they are excellent for camping/hiking/emergency stores and keep for years. I would love to hear if any of you have tried them?

:: Passport, cash and important family documents

In a ziplock bag or waterproof box you need to ensure that you have your passport or travel documents, as much cash as you’re comfortable withdrawing (ATMs could be down for a while and card machines at the store won’t work either) and any insurance policy documents or other Id and banking docs.

2018 Update: Keep your passport and any other important documents on your person! My colleague had his passport in his house, but that wasn’t much use to him when the house collapsed. Getting him out of the country for evacuation was even more of a challenge than usual. Scan or send pictures of your passport to trusted family members or friends outside of the hurricane zone. Write down emergency contact details in case your mobile phone runs out of battery – you may need to hand them over to officials so that they can contact your family. 

Speaking of friends and family outside of the hurricane zone. Set up a central Facebook message and add friends and family. In the days following you might be able to get word to one (in our case it was a call my husband made on a borrowed satellite phone to my brother-in-law that lasted approx 14 seconds) and that one person can then update everyone to let them know that you are safe. 

:: Torches, batteries, candles and matches

No two ways about it, you’re going to be without power for some period of time, the question is, just for how long? Having an adequate supply of candles and torches will make life a lot easier. Then just grab a good book and hunker down. Be sure to fully power up your phone, kindle, laptop, tablet etc to keep them going for as long as possible.

2018 Update: Collect up any battery-powered LED lights that you have around the house, string lights etc. can be useful for providing a low-level of light to a room and making it easier to move around after dark. 

:: Portable chargers

I mentioned these in a previous post here, they are great for travel and an island essential to see you through the regular power cuts. But, never are they more useful than during hurricane season. I have two (one large and one small) and will be fully charging them both. This will hopefully mean that I can keep my phone powered – then I just have to keep my fingers crossed that the phone signal holds out.

:: Books, playing cards and board games

Not withstanding the fact that you have fully charged all your electronic devices, they are still unlikely to see you all the way through the power cuts. August’s storm saw some houses without power for 3-4 days and that’s nothing in the grand scheme of potential issues post-hurricane. My new favourite game is Monopoly Deal but you should also make sure you have a good book to read and maybe use this time as an opportunity to brush up on your poker skills with friends.

:: First Aid Kit and Prescription Meds

For all the obvious reasons you’ll want to make sure that you have a small first aid kit (our one is fab and reasonably priced) along with at least a 2 week supply of your usual prescription meds.

2018 Update: Aim to have at least one month’s supply of any prescription medications. Even though I was evacuated after 6 days it took a while to get set up with a doctor who could prescribe my medications – I was fortunate to have enough to cover it but these are things to be aware of. 

:: Wet wipes, dry shampoo, hand sanitizer, toilet paper and other personal hygiene supplies

As unpalatable as it is to think about, you may be without running water for a while… a pack of wet wipes, hand sanitizer and some dry shampoo will help you freshen up, since you’ll be wanting to save the bulk of your fresh water for drinking. I’m packing up all my mini travel supplies as we will be de-camping to a friend’s house to ride out the storm.

2018 Update: Water for washing – fill your bath (if you have one) and/or sinks with water. This can then be scooped out to flush toilet and wash. A portable camping shower and bucket of clean water could also come in handy for a fresh water rinse off. 

:: Change of clothes and spare underwear –

You never know if, or when, you might have to evacuate at short notice. Have a grab-bag packed and ready to go, just in case.

2018 Update: In the days leading up to the predicted hurricane – be sure to do as much laundry as you can. You will want to ensure that you have clean sheets, towels and plenty of clean clothes on hand, if possible. 

:: Other useful items –

battery-powered or hand-crank radio, paper plates/cups, cooler with ice, can-opener/bottle opener, duct tape, tool kit, fire extinguisher and car charger.

Further 2018 Edits
:: Boots

After the storm there will likely be significant amounts of debris everywhere; nails, glass, rocks and wire. At the very least you will need trainers, but preferably hiking boots or something more solid. I had a leather pair of moto boots that were super comfortable and sturdy. Every time I left the house people asked to buy them off me. You do not want to get cuts and scrapes on your feet – the debris will be filthy and it is the prime environment for infection. 

:: Grab bag

One of the things that I maintained during the storm and in the days after (before I was evacuated) was a grab bag containing all of my essentials. A change of clean clothes, my battery pack, a torch, batteries, my passport, some trail mix and a bottle of drinking water, my phone, wallet and kindle. Wherever I went, that bag came with me. With long days out of the house; finding friends, community meetings, trying to buy food/water/gas etc. it gave me a certain reassurance to have these supplies with me.

:: Boarding Up

It is vital that wherever you are planning to stay during the hurricane takes boarding up and hurricane shutters very seriously. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of securing your windows and doors as best you can. The damage that can be done to the house as soon as the winds start to get inside can be catastrophic.  If you are staying in rented accommodation – insist that your landlord takes their responsibility to board up your house seriously, even if you have hurricane glass windows. 

:: Do not get drunk

I have removed any reference to alcohol from my previous post. As much as it is tempting to hunker down with friends and crack open some wine. Please don’t. You will need to keep your wits about you – particularly if you suffer damage to where you are staying and need to move to somewhere more secure during the eye of the storm.  On that same note – it is impossible to know how long it will take the eye of the storm to pass over. DO NOT go outside during the eye unless it is absolutely necessary to move for your own personal safety. 

:: Gas

Be sure to fill your car(s) and any cooking gas cannisters. Gas and diesel were in short supply after the storm with long lines at the gas station and supplies rationed.

:: Big ticket items that are desirable but not essential

A gas BBQ – preferably one that has a gas ring burner attached for boiling water and heating food in pans.

A small generator – we were without power at our house for over three months and were fortunate enough to stay with very patient friends, but when our generator arrived we were able to move back home and live comfortably while we waited for power to be restored. Our generator cost in the region of $1,000 including shipping and duty into the BVI but they can be purchased for around $300-$400.

A satellite phone – these are very expensive so it isn’t realistic to expect many people to be able to afford one at home. But in the days following the storm they were the only way to get word to anyone outside the Territory. I would recommend that your office or business look into purchasing one as part of their disaster response plan.

 

My thoughts are with Hawaii as Hurricane Lane heads their way – and with everyone affected during hurricane season. It is a time of great anxiety for many of us. With the anniversary of Hurricane Irma rapidly approaching hurricane safety has been at the forefront of my mind. I hope that some of these tips and observations will prove helpful.

Stay safe!

*in case you’re new here (welcome!) we experienced a direct hit by Cat 5 Hurricane Irma in September 2017 – the strongest Atlantic Hurricane in recorded history – and life hasn’t been quite the same since… 

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